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a singles profile they can't ignore
Often, the hardest part of creating your profile is describing
yourself to others. Jsoulmate.com gives you the freedom to define
yourself so you can put your best foot forward. Here are a few
suggestions for getting started:
Think about what sets you apart. How are you
different? What gives you your unique character? If your friends
were describing you, what would be the three things they would
all say about you? These are good questions to ask yourself as
you get ready to write your profile.
Be honest. Honesty is taken seriously at Jsoulmate.com
and it's the single most important thing to remember when writing
a great profile. It's much easier to write about yourself if you
are honest about who you are. It prevents you from having to spin
ways to best sell yourself or guess at what you think other people
want to read.
A big part of being honest is not misleading people down the
road. People will assume that what you write is true — and
you don't want to set people up for a surprise later by stretching
the truth in your profile. For example, if you hate camping, don't
say you love it just to grab the eye of an outdoorsy type.
Show, don't tell: The best profiles show, don't
tell, who you are at your best. If you are known for being funny,
try explaining how or why you are funny - such as, "I've
been known to show up to a party in a wig", instead of "I
have a good sense of humor." Paint a picture in their minds
of the kind of person you are.
Be open and conversational. Leave formality
at the door and write your profile like you are talking to a good
friend. Of course, there are some things you might tell a good
friend that you probably don't want to include in your profile.
It's a good idea to avoid mentioning past relationships and exes,
or discoursing on being lonely or desperate. Be optimistic!
Include a photo in the jewish dating service:
Your smile, the background that you're photographed in, what you're
wearing, they all paint a picture of what you're truly like. And
including a recent photo will get you 10 times the attention.
Check your spelling and grammar. Check your profile for typos
and spelling mistakes before you submit it. Show you spent time
thinking about and writing your profile.
Update your profile. Keep your profile fresh.
Every now and then, go back to your profile and update it to let
people know you're still out there.
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